This is a community that has been set up primarily to provide support to teenagers who are to become parents. It will hopefully also be helpful to their parents and friends. Because it is meant to be a supportive environment, we believe that it is important that certain norms be established and maintained. We feel that if you can't be:
then this is not the right place for you. There are plenty of other sites where you can vent your spleen and we'd ask you to show sufficient respect not to try to do it here.